Building family in Nashville for men called to vocational singleness for the kingdom.

Mission

Vision

We pray that brothers would find stable, life-giving family in our community, serving as a physical embodiment of God’s love and drawing brothers deeper into relationship with Jesus. In turn, right relationship with God and right relationship with each other will empower us to leverage our singleness for the sake of the kingdom.

Brothers commit to vocational singleness: a lifetime calling to abstinent singleness for the sake of kingdom work with undivided attention. This includes permanently giving up romance and dating in order to leverage one’s availability to do kingdom work parents struggle to find the time, energy, focus, or financial freedom to do. Kingdom work is any work that promotes healing and flourishing in the world in ways that treat workers justly and use resources responsibly. Brothers will discover how God is individually calling them to use their work to build the kingdom.

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Meet the Brothers

  • Pieter Valk

    Pieter is a speaker/author, Executive Director of Equip (equipyourcommunity.org), cofounder of the Nashville Family of Brothers, teacher/aspiring deacon in the ACNA, and a Licensed Professional Counselor. He helps churches love gay people and celibate Christians find family. Pieter studied at Vanderbilt University, Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary and Lipscomb University. He is a member of Church of the Redeemer Anglican. In his free time Pieter may be found running, playing the bassoon, cooking for friends, hosting a board game night, and snuggling with his friends’ babies. Pieter has made a three year commitment in October 2020. Follow him on socials @pieterLvalk, learn more at pieterLvalk.com, and reach him at me@pieterLvalk.com.

  • Jim Tablazon

    Jim studied History at Wheaton College. His biological family lives in New Jersey and North Carolina, and he’s constantly trying to get his two sisters to visit (and move to) Nashville. He works at Asurion in the Gulch where he is an Instructional Designer. Before this, he taught seventh grade English reading and writing. He attends Church of the Redeemer, an Anglican Church. In his free time, Jim likes to try new Nashville restaurants, play the piano, attend the Symphony, and play board games. He enjoys eating brunch and getting work done in coffeeshops on rainy days. Jim made a three year commitment on October 2020. You can reach him at jimhtablazon@gmail.com.

  • James Brimm

    James studied history at Samford University in Birmingham, AL. His biological family lives in the greater Nashville area on the family farm. He works at the Hendersonville Public Library, and can usually be found answering questions at the information desk. He attends Redeemer Church, a Southern Baptist church in Hendersonville. In his free time, James like to read, research whatever topic or idea has grabbed his attention, and knit while half watching a cooking or baking show. James made a one-year commitment in October 2022. You can reach him at jbrimm180@gmail.com.

  • Kevin Burgers

    Kevin grew up in northwest Washington state and moved to Nashville in 2011 after studying civil engineering at the University of Washington. Kevin works as a water loss consultant and attends St. Andrews Anglican church. He loves to travel, hike, play sports, board games, and is always on the lookout for good breweries.

  • Forrest Johnson

    Forrest is from Atlanta, Georgia and studied Earth and Atmospheric Sciences at Georgia Tech. However, God called him to a different route and he has been serving in ministry with Cru since 2009. In his spare time, he loves hanging out with brothers and other friends, playing disc golf, and watching classic game shows. He moved to Nashville to be a part of NFOB in August of 2021 and has since made a 3-year commitment in October of 2022.

  • Curtis Johnson

    Curtis was raised in the forests of Michigan and graduated from Bethel University (formerly Bethel College) in Indiana with a bachelor's degree in sociology. He is a country boy at heart and can often be found connecting with the outdoors in his bare feet. Curtis aspires to accumulate few personal possessions, but instead, to create and collect memories with friends and family. He enjoys researching family history and has devoted much of his life to compiling and preserving these facts and stories. He enjoys baking, reading, and exploring lands nearby and across the oceans. Curtis is currently employed by a high-efficiency grocery retailer and will begin a new adventure this October as he joins the Nashville Family of Brothers with a one-year commitment.

Our History

On Monday, March 26th, 2018, eight men gathered for dinner, prayer, and to consider if God was calling us to start an ecumenical Christian monastery in Nashville. Over the next year, fourteen different guys joined us for weekly dinner, discussion of books about discernment or theology, and prayer about God’s call on our lives. In between dinners we performed miserably at Trivia, enjoyed the Nashville Symphony, and vacationed in Charleston, South Carolina together.

…weekly dinner, discussion of books about discernment or theology, and prayer about God’s call on our lives.

A year later, on Saturday, February 23rd, 2019, Jim Tablazon and Pieter Valk made one-year promises to the Nashville Family of Brothers, beginning their formal processes of discerning whether God was calling them to make the Family their family. 

In the summer of 2020 the NFOB Pastoral Advisory Board was established to provide accountability and oversight from local pastors. In October 2020, Jeff Gustafson joined the community by making one-year commitments and Jim and Pieter made three-year commitments. The Nashville Family of Brothers celebrated their first family Christmas on December 25th, 2020. In June 2020, the Community Covenant of the Nashville Family of Brothers was officially adopted.

In November of 2021, we began our first cohort-style Exploration group with nine men exploring whether to move to Nashville and begin discernment. After ten months of Explore, Kevin Burgers and Andrew Ross moved into the NFOB House. Soon after, Hunter and Forrest made three-year commitments to the Nashville Family of Brothers, and James, Kevin, and Andrew made one-year commitments to the Nashville Family of Brothers.

We continue to meet weekly with brothers in Christ at different stages of their discernment with great anticipation of what God might do in Nashville through this Family.

Leadership

Internally, we are first led by NFOB’s Community Covenant, our constitution or contract. Every three years we will elect a group of Stewards to faithfully carry out the practices and principles described in our Community Covenant and provide leadership over the various aspects of our life and mission. These may include finances, recruitment, discernment, marketing/communications, community mission, accountability, community housing, and family rhythms. Externally, we have assembled an advisory board of Nashville pastors from a variety of denominational backgrounds to provide accountability for the Nashville Family of Brothers. NFOB’s Pastoral Advisory Board seeks to ensure that our Stewards are accurately applying our Community Covenant and resolve any disputes that the Stewards cannot. Advisory Board members meet quarterly with Stewards, pray for the Nashville Family of Brothers, and offer prospective brothers a pastoral presence in their discernment.

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